As a mother and wife of 11 years, I know how tough it can be to take time to nurture ourselves, including our personal relationships. Since becoming a Pure Romance Consultant over 4 years ago, I’ve learned so much about everything from how to re-capture the intimacy you once shared to adding some spice back into the bedroom. Consultants get many opportunities for training on relationships and sexual health. Then we get to speak with all of the women who come to our parties about their own personal experiences and learn from each other. I enjoy having the chance to pass on all of those things I’ve been taught over the years. I also understand the need to create an environment that is both fun and comfortable for my customers. I want everyone at the parties to pick up some tips, learn a few things and have a great time with their girlfriends!
As a Pure Romance Consultant, I have a very laid back personality. I work a full-time job as well as doing parties part-time, so I’m not the type of consultant who is going to push parties and signing up on you or your guests. I am more than happy to talk about those things with anyone who wishes to, but please don’t feel as if it needs to be a concern for those who aren’t interested.
I also have just a couple of rules for my parties:
- Don’t stress! I have been a hostess a time or two. I know the effort you’re going to by inviting all of us to this party. But I want my hostesses to have fun too! Keep it simple and inexpensive. Cancellations? It’s fine! Commonly, half of those you invite will be able to make it. Those half are going to have a great time. I don’t have a minimum number of guests required.
- It’s not Tupperware. We’re talking about some fun, and sometimes awkward, subjects. I’m not going to be ‘shushing’ anyone. Laugh, talk and enjoy yourselves.
- No judgments. I don’t like to hear negative comments about how “I never would own one of those…” or “Why would anyone want to do that!?” Nor do I want someone who isn’t interested in seeing/tasting/touching something, or who doesn’t want to play a particular game, being teased into it. We all have our own comfort levels and they are all welcome. And on that note, I apologize in advance if I get to gesturing with any products absent-mindedly and accidentally hit you in the head. After several years, I stop thinking about what I’m holding from time-to-time
I hope that’s given you a little insight into the type of person and consultant I am. Please contact me if you have any questions at all!
